T.C.S.S #3 - Morbid post
Have you ever thought about these?
1. You and your spouse are traveling together for that much awaited holiday. And while you are enjoying the in-flight entertainement, there was a loud bang and soon, you two vanish from this earth altogether. While your families and friends mourn your sudden departure, your much loved kitties are all alone at home, waiting anxiously for your return. But there is never ever going to be one. They are now left all alone in the world, waiting anxiously at the door. What will happen to them now?
That is one of our worry. The Wife suggested we take different planes. But that is not really feasible. And anyway, accidents can happen anytime we are together eg in the car or bus. So that's out. Only good thing is that my mother-in-law likes the kxbc gang and though she does not have the technical knowledge nor experience, at least the 5 of them will still be loved and cared for. And my sister-in-law do enjoy their company so at least we can more or less go in peace. Money is not a problem as I think our estate should be able to provide for them comfortably for the next 15 years or so.
Have you any plans for this?
2. Your relationship with your spouse had somehow deteriorated until you cannot stand the sight of each other and divorce is the only way out. Who will take care of the kitties then? Both of you love them to bits and will definitely fight for their custody.
We have always discussed this question and the only thing that came to both our minds is that all 5 of them should always be in the best hands. No human is going to be the winner. The welfare of all 5 of them will be the major determinant.
Based on the current dynamics of the kxbc gang, Kim Kim, Xin Xin and General Yuan Yuan will follow me and Bon Bon and Chang Chang will follow the Wife.
Reason is quite simple really. Xin Xin has been with Kim Kim since she was a little kitten and there is always this unspoken bond between the both of them. And Xin Xin is like the mummy of the little General. And given that Xin Xin has always been my baby, she will definitely come with me.
And as Bon Bon has always sought the Wife's presence for comfort, she will naturally take care of the little sweet grey thing.
And so all that is left is Chang Chang. He has always been close to both of us and as it will clearly not be in any of the cat's best interest to be alone, he will follow the Wife.
So, it's really a morbid post, isn't it? I thought it was always best to think of such things and have them communicated to the Wife so that should that day ever happen, their welfare will always be taken care of without any of the nasty emotions coming into play. And of course, there are going to be visitation rights over the weekend. :) You can never severe your ties with your children, can you?
1. You and your spouse are traveling together for that much awaited holiday. And while you are enjoying the in-flight entertainement, there was a loud bang and soon, you two vanish from this earth altogether. While your families and friends mourn your sudden departure, your much loved kitties are all alone at home, waiting anxiously for your return. But there is never ever going to be one. They are now left all alone in the world, waiting anxiously at the door. What will happen to them now?
That is one of our worry. The Wife suggested we take different planes. But that is not really feasible. And anyway, accidents can happen anytime we are together eg in the car or bus. So that's out. Only good thing is that my mother-in-law likes the kxbc gang and though she does not have the technical knowledge nor experience, at least the 5 of them will still be loved and cared for. And my sister-in-law do enjoy their company so at least we can more or less go in peace. Money is not a problem as I think our estate should be able to provide for them comfortably for the next 15 years or so.
Have you any plans for this?
2. Your relationship with your spouse had somehow deteriorated until you cannot stand the sight of each other and divorce is the only way out. Who will take care of the kitties then? Both of you love them to bits and will definitely fight for their custody.
We have always discussed this question and the only thing that came to both our minds is that all 5 of them should always be in the best hands. No human is going to be the winner. The welfare of all 5 of them will be the major determinant.
Based on the current dynamics of the kxbc gang, Kim Kim, Xin Xin and General Yuan Yuan will follow me and Bon Bon and Chang Chang will follow the Wife.
Reason is quite simple really. Xin Xin has been with Kim Kim since she was a little kitten and there is always this unspoken bond between the both of them. And Xin Xin is like the mummy of the little General. And given that Xin Xin has always been my baby, she will definitely come with me.
And as Bon Bon has always sought the Wife's presence for comfort, she will naturally take care of the little sweet grey thing.
And so all that is left is Chang Chang. He has always been close to both of us and as it will clearly not be in any of the cat's best interest to be alone, he will follow the Wife.
So, it's really a morbid post, isn't it? I thought it was always best to think of such things and have them communicated to the Wife so that should that day ever happen, their welfare will always be taken care of without any of the nasty emotions coming into play. And of course, there are going to be visitation rights over the weekend. :) You can never severe your ties with your children, can you?
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posted by KXBC at 11:04 PM
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I had to go through something like this a few years ago. I was with a man who was not exactly pleasant, and when he was out of my life, I made sure I kept the cats. I was too afraid of what he would do to them so I made sure I got them.
I do think about what would happen if I were in an accident. My current boyfriend has said he would watch over them, and with his good heart, I know they would be in excellent hands. These are, however, great things to consider.
They are, aren't they?
Some people may think it strange that we actually care so much for these animals but I think they have just missed the entire point. These cats are our dependents and without us caring for them, they will live in hardship. And because we love them like our own children, we will strive to protect them as much as we can. It does not matter if they are humans, cats, dogs, hamsters, fish, rabbits, snakes or bird or whatever.
actually, it's not morbid at all.
after my friend's sudden departure from this world due to a diving accident, we actually got down to writing a will, and yes, one for our own cats too!
Well I had considered this question some time ago. I thought Akira will stay with my mother as she is very manja with her and will seek her lap whenever she can. Toro will stay with my nephew and his wife cos she likes him alot. Then Bujang will stay with my sister as he is very confident and can take care of himself. He is not outwardly affectionate so he cant go to anyone else. My mother says okie which leaves me to persuade the other two :)
I did the same too, KSN. I've made all the necessary arrangements for the Chaos in the event something happened to me.
I have thought of these possibilities many times too. But when we're away on holiday, the aunt will come and take care of the kittys. She had her own cats before (since passed) and is an excellent care giver. She will do the right thing. I trust her to take care of the kittys.
If we get separated the kittys will follow me! They are more attached to me than the mrs so it is no contest.. ;o)
All kitties am invited to mine purrthday party next month!! Puhlease come by & let us know if you will be coming & how many!
I like it! Good job. Go on.
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